Dr. William Wenner - our mentor and friend

Written by J

"The Butterfly House" would never have happened without the help of my great friend, Dr. Bill Wenner.

From 1971 through 1976, Sonja and I lived in a little rented cabin in Pacific Grove. Through the years I worked hard to make this a cabin a beautiful place for us to live. In 1976, the property was sold to a couple from Texas. When they moved from Texas to Pacific Grove and found out an interracial couple was living in the rented cabin behind their primary home, they gave us to two weeks to get out. We searched frantically to find a place to live. After a week, we found the property we own now, but did not have the down payment.

Dr. Bill was the doctor for the drug counseling center where I worked. Dr. Bill volunteered his services to many agencies and individuals throughout Monterey County. He was one of the most loved surgeons on the Monterey Peninsula, not only for his skill as a surgeon, but for his volunteer activities. When I mentioned to him that we only three days to get a down payment on the home; without hesitation, he gave us the money for the down payment.

I have traveled to every state in this country, but I have never met such a caring, loving man as Dr. Bill Wenner. He was my mentor, and if I could have chosen my father, it would have been Dr. Bill. The picture below is of Dr. Bill and Sonja on his property on the big island of Hawaii.

On November 24, 2005, our beautiful friend, Dr. Bill Wenner, died at his home in Volcano, Hawaii. Sonja and I are celebrating his life because life is what Dr. Bill was all about. He will always be in our thoughts and in our hearts. LOVE YOU, BILL!


Recently, we received a card from a fan who lives in San Jose, CA and has an 11 year old cousin living in England. My wife and I got such a laugh from it, that we wanted to share it with all of you.

Dear J,

Recently, my cousin, who is 11 years old, was visiting us from England and we brought him by your Butterfly House and he must have been really impressed. When he went back to school in England, they asked him to show a pitctur of where he visited on his vacation. He chose a picture of the Butterfly House over Yosemite Park and the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco.

Letters like this one makes me get up every morning to continue working on the The Butterfly House for Sonja and I, and all our wonderful friends around the world.


Virginia Holine

Virginia Holine has been my dearest and closest friend since we met in 1973. We worked in adjacent offices for different agencies, but a lasting bond was formed. When we met, she was a widowed mom of two school age children and, yet, she always had time to listen and be supportive of her friends.


I am pleased that to this day, 10 years after her retirement, our friendship has continued to grow. She knew J and I during the years we struggled to buy and build our present home. Many times she loaned us money when things got rough. The real beauty of Virginia, is that she was never judgmental, always practical and had boundless ‘common sense’. The world is a better place because she helps to make it that way.

Notes from our friends!

Hello J,

Margarita and I feel fortunate to have accidentally come across your amazing home on Monday May 8th, 2006; and we feel even more fortunate to have met you there. As beautiful as Monterey and Carmel are, seeing your home and meeting you remain highlights of our trip. We have been showing photographs of your home to all of our friends, and telling them of the good work that you are doing with blind children. We wish to thank you for the good work that you do, and we wish you and Sonja the very best in all your endeavors.

Kindest regards,
- Bob

Attached, please find a check in the amount of $10.00 for a personalized butterfly to be placed on your Butterfly Universe Wall of Love. We wish the butterfly's label to read as follows: Margarita & Bob - 2006

A special thank you to our many friends!

Sonja and I would like to take this opportunity to thank all of our fans around the world. Since the beginning of the creation of "The Butterfly House" seven years ago, your response has been overwhelming.

We appreciate the phone calls, cards, letters, books, and butterfly gifts.

Sharing our stories and creativity with you is a joy.

Love ... J


J, Samantha and her father, while Samantha
is holding a copy of the Oakley Press

We would like you to meet a very special friend - Nadine Heidacker. She is a photographer from Novato, CA.

Our fans first learned about "The Butterfly House" from an article in our local Monterey Herald newspaper (http://www.themontereyherald.com). The story was written by Amy Ettinger - published December 2, 2002.

We also want to thank the Salinas Californian newspaper for another article about "The Butterfly House" on October 16, 2004, written by Janice Austin.

We were also featured in the "Evening Magazine" on CBS Channel 5, out of San Francisco, on February 24, 2004. This is a travel "magazine" for the Central Coast of California.

On March 18, 2005, again in our local Monterey Herald newspaper, the Padre Trails Camera Club entered two photographs of J’s art work on "The Butterfly House". One of the categories for the participants was "Oddball or Quaint".The photograph of the "Butterfly Queen" won first place in this category. The other photograph in this category won second place.

Some of the pictures in the Photo Gallery were taken by a good friend and former neighbor, "Monterey Jack".

The love story you can read about us in Carmel Magazine (click here) was written by Executive Editor Scott Brown and professional photographs taken by Kelli Uldall. For those of you who do not live in the Monterey area, this is a first class magazine, which is published quarterly by the Carmel Media Group, Inc. Sonja and I hope you enjoy this story because it was written with love and compassion for all who go through life with vision loss.

Lastly, we want to thank everyone who featured "The Butterfly House" in their communities around the world.


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